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5 Signs You’re on the Right Track.
An old man once gave me the most valuable piece of advice I’ve ever heard. It stuck with me for the rest of my life. He said to me, “Things don’t happen to you, they happen for you.” These words completely changed my perspective on life. Why? Because it hurts. It hurts when you constantly…
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How I Overcame Severe Heartbreak: A Poem.
My heart was torn into pieces. My soul was shattered, left with nothing but creases. I couldn’t believe that this was happening to me… a heartbreak disaster, and all I could do was plea. Plea with myself, plea with him…plea with everything because I didn’t want to admit that it was over on such a…
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Dating Apps 101: True love? Or a recipe for heart break?
Today I contacted an interesting Instagram survey. I asked my friends whether they believed dating apps were “effective” or not. I put the word effective in quotation marks because effective is very subjective. This means that everyone can have an opinion on whether something is “effective” or not; but until it is proven by science…
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I thought we were a perfect match.
It’s been three days since my lover and best friend cancelled me, and all I can do is cry. I knew our time was coming to an end, but all I can wonder is why. I’m sad, devastated and upset; I truly feel depressed. And as I write this letter today, I’m hoping I have…
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The Science of Lust.
Legend has it that the Buddha saw sexual energy as the strongest of all energies in existence; and the most difficult energy to relate to skillfully. The Ancient Chinese also saw the concept of Yin and Yang (male and female sexual energy) as a perfect opportunity for balance and hence a skill that teaches resilience.…
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Stop Dating Emotionally Unavailable People.
Picture this: you’re in the bed of someone you think you love. It’s taken weeks, maybe even months for you to get here. But it’s arrived. Then suddenly, it hits you. They don’t see you in the same light that you see them. To you, they’re everything: fun, fine and fit to be a partner.…
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Love sick.
Rumor has it that the best way to get over one person… is to get under someone else. I thought this tactic would work for me as I struggled with getting over my ex, but now, it’s only led me deeper into pain and frustration. I feel lost, confused, and quite frankly devastated. What was…
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How did I fall in love so quickly?
I don’t get it. You were supposed to be a mere joke. A reflection of how fun it is to be young, dumb and unprovoked. I was fully content with myself before you came into my life. I was broken, sure, and my time was filled with strife. But nevertheless, I was good. In fact,…
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5 ways to keep your New Year’s Resolutions.
2022 is the year of Manifestation. It’s the year when hard-work and patience meet consistency and dedication. This is why I’ve decided to take the month of January to reflect on who I want to become, and where I want to go in life. In order to do this, my plan is to be as…
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Daddy Issues.
I’ve found that men with daddy issues tend to be runners in relationships; meaning, they jump around from one counterpart to the next – desperately seeking the love and attention that their fathers didn’t offer them. They also tend to have anger issues and a lack of understanding of themselves, since the person who literally…
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The Diaries of Stacy Rahaka.
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